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Target Isn’t Therapy (And Neither is Golf): 9 Things You’re Doing Instead of Booking the Session You Actually Need

For the guys who’ve been holding it down for everyone else—and might just be starting to wonder… at what cost? Alright, brother—let’s have a real one. You’re solid. You get things done. You know how to hold the line, get through it, push forward. Whether it’s the flight deck, the field, the job, the family—you’re…

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The Pursuit: A Journey of Purpose, Not Hustle

We believe that pursuit means different things for different people. It’s not about glorifying hustle culture or pushing for endless productivity—it’s about living with purpose, paying attention to the direction of your journey, and showing up well for yourself and others. For some, The Pursuit means: No matter where you are on your journey, The…

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Hugs Can Strengthen Your Relationship

When we think about relationships, we often focus on communication, shared experiences, or emotional support. But there\’s one powerful aspect of connection that we may overlook: physical touch, particularly the simple act of hugging. Research shows that hugs aren\’t just a comforting gesture—they can significantly impact your emotional and physical well-being, improving the quality of…

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Deep Therapeutic Work Paired with Small Actions

Therapy often begins with self-awareness. A client enters the room and starts untangling the threads of their life—exploring triggers, unpacking past traumas, uncovering childhood wounds, and analyzing the motivations behind their decisions. This work is essential, and it takes courage to look inward. But even with all the insight in the world, the question arises:…

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Supporting Others: Ask, Offer, Listen

We are going through a challenging time, at the time of writing this blog. California is undergoing a massive wildfire that is effecting our local friends in the film industry. Their homes on the west coast, their friends, and businesses are literally going up in flames. You might be wanting to offer genuine support to…

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Changing Your Brain to Change Your Life

The Power of Changing Your Brain: How Rewiring Thought Patterns Transforms Daily Life Have you ever felt stuck in an endless loop of negative thoughts? What if we told you that you have the power to change not only your thought patterns but also the way your brain works? This isn’t just wishful thinking—it’s science….

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Why Therapists Use Analogies and Mantras in Their Work

Therapists often rely on analogies, mantras, and mnemonic devices to help clients grasp and remember complex mental health concepts. These tools serve as mental \”zip files,\” condensing larger ideas into digestible and actionable takeaways. For instance, a mantra like \”slow down\” can remind someone experiencing anxiety to address their racing thoughts and actions without overanalyzing…

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Finding Moments of Gratitude During Holiday Stress

Clark Griswald is the epitome of holiday ambition. In the classic movie Christmas Vacation, he decides to cover his entire house in twinkling Christmas lights. But what’s his real motivation? As his family pours in for the holidays—bringing chaos, unsolicited advice, and the occasional insult—Clark retreats to the front yard, ladder in hand, determined to…

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Boundaries: House Analogy for Healthy Living

When it comes to boundaries in relationships, it can be helpful to visualize your life as a house. Every house has some distinct areas: the front porch, the living room, and the kitchen. Each space represents a different level of intimacy and connection with the people in your life. By imagining your relationships in terms…

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The Science of the \”Superman\” Pose

If you\’ve ever watched Grey\’s Anatomy, you might remember the moment when Amelia Shepherd and others strike the \”Superman\” pose—a stance with hands on hips, chest forward, and chin slightly lifted. While it might seem like a quirky pep talk, the science behind this powerful pose is far from fictional. Research has shown that adopting…

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